Talk about your fantasies.
How often would you like to have sex?
What do you think about sex?
Is sex a need, an appetite, or both?
How often do you feel like having sex?
How often do I feel like having sex?
What is foreplay?
What type of foreplay do you like?
What type of foreplay do I like?
For example, I will kiss you all over.
Go ahead with my favorite position.
What do you think?
Do you have any preference?
How long should a sexual session continue?
What are your needs?
Would you like this to be for 15 minutes, an hour, or two hours?
How long should we wait after I ejaculate or you orgasm?
Do you think we should go for a long sleep or get up quickly?
What sexual positions do you like?
What sexual positions do I like?
What do you do after having a sexual session?
Take a bath, exercise, have nutritious food, meet people?
Let's look at the practical aspect of this?
How do you start making love?
I will show you.
Sexy Relationship Questions for Your ______
What's your favorite part of sex?
What's your biggest sexual fantasy (involving one partner)?
Would you ask me what my biggest sexual fantasy is?
What's the naughtiest thing you ever thought of me?
Are you familiar with the term "erotic roleplay"?
Have you ever had sex in a public place?
Do you enjoy phone sex?
Where do you want to have sex the most?
What do you want to do with my body?
Have you ever had a sexy nickname? How did you get it?
Would you ever (fill in the blank)?
Have you ever tried whipped cream in the bedroom?
Do you want to do something really wild?
Do you ever had erotic thoughts about me? Describe them.
Can't we ditch this (fill in the blank) and go have sex?
What would you do with me if we were alone right now?
Sexy Relationship Questions for Your ______g
What's your favorite place to be kissed?
Describe your favorite kiss you've ever had?
What's your favorite color lingerie?
What color panties are you wearing?
What's your favorite sexual position?
Do you prefer ice cubes or hot wax?
Do you prefer strawberries with whipped cream or chocolate?
Do you prefer sex beneath the sheets or on top?
Do you prefer sex with the lights on or off?
Do you like rough sex or smooth sex?
What's your sexiest article of clothing?
Where would you like me to touch you more?
What sexual act feels the best when we have sex?
Have you ever had a sexy dream about me? Describe it.
What one word would describe the most pleasurable night you've had?
Top Questions in a Relationship - Romance Questions
Can a person be "in too deep" or "too much in love"?
Can a couple be in love too much?
Should a couple have a lot in common, or is "attraction" enough?
Do you believe in love at first site? What about "friends" becoming lovers?
Should a couple also be friends?
Top Questions in a Romantic Relationship - Personality Quiz
Some people will find these questions more important to know than others. If you're not overly concerned about religion or politics, then you might let your partner bring it up. If it's essential for your partner to have the same faith as you, then you might ask about their religious views right away. Or if you find a guy who's always ranting about politics or "the system" to be a real turn-off, then you should know that right away. You could be wasting your time and his or hers.
Also, if you don't want to date a jealous or controlling type, ask them about those subjects and see their reaction. Most guys or girls will deny being jealous or controlling, but you might learn something about their attitudes in the way they answer the question. And while it might seem hurtful to ask about someone's depression, but if you don't want to date someone with a lot of "issues", it might do some good to ask -- especially if you get the vibe that something is going on in their mind. If you want to continue dating that person, you need to know their needs and what they're coping with.
Do you have religious beliefs? How strong are your beliefs?
How political are you?
Do you consider yourself the jealous type?
Do you insist on having your "own way"?
Do you ever get depressed?
Top Questions in a Romance - Sex Questions
Alright, now we get to the fun part. Once the two of you have sex, it shouldn't be much of an intrusion to begin asking these questions. If the two of you are sexually compatible, then it means you can have more fun sooner. If you aren't, you can discuss your preferences and try to come to an understanding about your sex life.
You might find the two of you just don't have the same sexual needs. That's a perfectly legitimate reason for otherwise mutually attracted people to part ways. Either way, it's important that couples communicate abouts sex, because it fosters a bond and encourages openness in other aspects of your romantic relationship.
Are you adventurous in bed?
What is your favorite sexual fantasy?
Do you enjoy "erotic" sex?
How comfortable are you discussing sex?
How many times a week do you want sex? What do women love to hear during sex?
You are as hot as ever.
You play a perfect seductress.
Your moaning drives me crazy.
I love playing with your body curves.
I enjoy kissing each inch of you.
Would you like to add anything?
Top Questions in a Romantic Relationship - Marriage Quiz
If the two of you start talking marriage, here are top questions in a serious romantic relationship. Ask your partner about these questions before you walk down the isle, because they are certain to come up later. There's nothing more heartbreaking for someone to want children, but end up marrying a spouse who doesn't them around.
Also, you need to know if your partner has money troubles. If so, you can expect a lifetime of troubled finances and angst about their spending habits. And if the two of you cannot agree about how to raise children and who does what around the house, you need to know that before you start making plans to build a home life together.
Do you want to have children? If so, how many?
Do you see us having a future together?
Do you have debt? If so, how serious is your debt situation?
Do you want to have children? If so, how many?
What kind of domestic life do you want to have?
Does you family get along with your girlfriends/boyfriends?
How much time do you spend with your family?
What do you do on birthdays? Holidays?
Do you think we're compatible?
Top Questions in a Relationship - Questions About the Past
A person's past is a guide to the future. As the saying goes, character is destiny. Also, if you find someone with a past of cheating, you might expect there's a decent chance that person will cheat again. And if your new boyfriend or girlfriend needs constant proximity or constant affirmation in a romantic relationship, it can raise the tension level significantly. Some people like the high-maintenance relationship, but most prefer a romantic relationship of mutual trust and mutual respect.
You'll also get an idea of potential problems in your relationship. Many people fall into "relationship patterns", especially if they have personality issues that make them neurotic or self-destructive. Learning what has gone on before will put you on the guard in case it happens again.
Have you ever been in a co-dependent relationship?
How did you end your last relationship?
What went wrong with your last relationship?
Have you ever cheated on someone? Have you ever been cheated on?
Have you ever been in a romantic relationship where you bickered a lot?
Sex and Romance Questions To Ask Your New Lover
There are any number of sexual questions you should ask in a relationship. We have a page or two about "sexual relationship questions", but I wanted to include a few of the less intensive questions to ask your new lover. It may seem odd to follow up the religious questions with sex questions, but just about every romantic relationship is going to deal with intimacy and intimate questions at some point.
These are some things you just need to know.
Could you describe your perfect mate?
Are you interested in a serious relationship?
Do you think I listen to you and consider your opinions?
Why did you break up with your last ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?
Is there some activity you are not prepared to give up in a marriage?
How comfortable are you discussing sex?
Do you consider yourself affectionate?
How often do you want sex?
Have you always practiced safe sex?
Are you comfortable with these questions?
Health Questions You Should Ask Your Partner
There are several health-related questions you should ask in a relationship, too. When asking these questions, you should volunteer your own health information. That way, your new partner will feel the two of you are sharing information, or even talking about your common problems or concerns.
What is your health history?
Do you have current health issues?
Questions Your Should Ask Yourself in a Relationship
Finally, you need to remember to ask yourself questions about your relationship. When you have "alone time", you need to occasionally think about your current relationship and sort through your own feelings and opinions about it. Introspection and self-knowledge is important, not only when your relationship is having problems, but when you are deciding whether to take it to that next level. As the saying goes, know yourself.
Do we share common values?
Do I feel safe with this person? Am I comfortable expressing my feelings?
How does my partner treat other people?
What do I really want from this relationship?
Why do I want to be in this relationship?
Do the two of us laugh when we're together? Do I enjoy my time with this person?
Difficult Relationship Questions
These difficult relationship questions aren't quite as long term as they are for the "serious couple" or a man and woman considering marriage. But if you're dating someone and considering intimate relations, there might be some questions arise that are difficult to ask. Here's an overview of some of those questions and when (or if) those questions should be asked.
Some questions are better left unasked. When I touch on "loaded" relationship questions, I'll point out if it's best you avoid these questions altogether.
Are You Attracted to Other People?
This is a loaded question, because there's really no right answer. It's human to be attracted to more than one person. If you tell your partner "no", they'll probably believe you're lying to them (and they'll probably be right). If you answer "yes", you're in for a world of trouble.
The person asking this question is looking for affirmation. The girlfriend who asks this question probably wants to be told you think of no one but her. The boyfriend who asks this question is probably the jealous type. In either case, they likely are wanting an unrealistic answer to their question. It puts you in the position of doing the smart thing and lying, or being truthful -- and in this case hurtful.
If you're thinking about asking this question to your new boyfriend, ask yourself why. You want your partner to have a healthy libido, don't you? Would you want to be with the kind of person who never thinks about the opposite sex? It's one thing being attracted to someone you're not in a relationship with; it's another to act on that attraction.
Why do you spend time with your friends instead of me?
This the question a possessive person asks. If your boyfriend or girlfriend wants the two of you to spend every waking moment together, that's a sign of insecurity. This person needs constant affirmation of your "love" for you. You'll be asked to prove your love by either taking your girlfriend/boyfriend along with your friends, or be asked to stop going out with your friends altogether.
Either of these is an unhealthy situation. A relationship should be healthy and open enough that the two of you can spend time away from one another without distrust and anxiety. A guy needs to be with the guys every once in a while. A woman needs female friends to bond with, too. To ditch your friends and spend all your time with one person makes you a lot less well-rounded and a lot less interesting.
Don't be controlled and don't be controlling. If you let your partner control your every action, they are going to have less respect for you. And if you let this person set the ground rules -- that is, every decision has to be okayed with him or her -- you are setting yourself up to play the fool in love. Stand up for yourself, be your own person and let your partner understand you need time with your friends.
Ultimately, if you're not doing anything "wrong", it doesn't hurt for your boyfriend or girlfriend to have a little healthy jealousy of your time. If you don't want to be separated, you probably are a little anxious about your partner's wandering eyes.
What about your past relationships?
Avoid asking your girlfriend about her past boyfriends. If your girlfriend asks about your ex-girlfriends, don't fall into the trap. Very little good can come from the discussion.
A lot of people seem to have a need to know about their lover's past lovers. This is almost always a bad idea. Seldom will both halves of a romantic relationship approach this subject in a mature enough fashion that something positive will come out of it. Even if you avoid any of the mines in this emotional minefield, the best the two of you can do is agree you're lucky to be out of those relationships.
Relationships end and they usually end badly. As much as we like to talk about "amicable splits", there's usually going to be tension and hard feelings (on at least one side) in a breakup. That's the way life goes. Talking about it is likely to drudge up bad memories. Frankly, if it doesn't, your partner is likely to feel threatened, since that means you've got an ex out there you apparently broke up with on good terms.
You have to ask yourself why your partner is asking this question. And if you are the one feeling the need to pose this relationship question, you might level with yourself about your own motives. From the practical side, you also might calculate the odds you'll get the answer you want.
Sure, curiosity exists about your girlfriend's or boyfriend's past relationships. It's natural for a person to compare themselves against their partner's past boyfriend or girlfriend. You don't want to go down that road. The natural next question is "What were they like in bed?", which raises the threat level even more.
On a related note, watch out if your partner voluntarily starts talking about their ex. That's a pretty good sign there's still feelings there.
How many sex partners have you had?
Here's another loaded question. This is one you're unlikely to get a truthful answer to, anyway. If you're asking, then you have a reason to ask. Are you feeling insecure? Do you want your partner to compare and contrast? Are you concerned about STDs? The third scenario is sensible concern, but you have to broach the subject carefully to avoid offending your partner.
If that's your reason for asking about your new partner's old partners, then try to bring up the question in as diplomatic fashion as possible. You might mention your own health status in regard to sexually transmitted diseases. This gives your partner an opening to reveal their relevant sexual history. If that doesn't do the trick and you're still concerned, then you might need to be more direct. Your health is more important than your partner's feelings, and a reasonable lover should understand that.
Remember that truthfulness and good communication is important. Be as direct and truthful as you can be, while remaining cognizant of your partner's feelings.
If you do end up asking about past relationships, keep in mind that your partner is likely to have changed as they got older. People mature. Immaturity and inexperience might have caused them to make really bad choices in the past. That doesn't mean they are the same person today. Just think about your own past relationships and think about how much you've grown emotionally since you first started dating.
Difficult Relationship Questions Avoid
These should be common sense, but I wanted to include them anyway. Asking these questions makes you appear to be shallow and superficial or more interested in money than love. These are answers you usually can get close to through general observation. If the relationship proceeds to another level, questions about money are more appropriate.
* How much do you weigh?
* How much money do you make?
* What is your net worth?
Difficult Relationship Questions - Marriage
If you are considering spending your life with your relationship partner, there are several questions you need to learn the answers to. The last thing you want is to be married a few years before you learn the two of you are incompatible. Many of these questions will have to do with lifestyle choices or raising children. It's best to know what's on your partner's mind before you plan the wedding, because sometimes these difficult relationship questions become irreconcilable differences.
Do you want children?
This is probably the #1 most important answer you need when considering marriage. Some people don't want children. Other might only want an only child, while still others want to raise a large family. If two people in a marriage can't answer this relationship question along the same lines, this is going to cause a lot of angst, arguments and heartbreak in the years to come. It is essential that a couple considering marriage understand one another on this question.
Both partners need to be honest when answering this relationship concern. It's only natural for a romantic relationship to eventually transform into a familiar relationship after marriage. If you consider a fulfilling life have 2.3 kids, but your partner isn't interested, do not go into the marriage assuming you are going to change his or her mind. You may end up feeling unfulfilled, which will put a tremendous strain on the marriage. Even if you convince him or her to have children, then your partner's heart might not be into it the way it should, with all kinds of unintended consequences.
Now, most married people want children. A more subtle conflict is between the one partner who wants a small family (maybe 1 child) and the other partner who wants a large family. This, too, will create conflicts and hard feelings. It's best you get on the page from Day 1, once the two of you decide you want to make your future together. Ask this difficult relationship question and make sure the two of you understand one another. If he or she disagree, then make sure your partner knows how important this is to you. Do not leave this an open question.
How do you want to raise the children?
This is almost as important as the question above. This is often where the question of faith or religion becomes important in a marriage. If the two of you are of different faiths, or one of you is more religious than the other, there is likely to be a discussion of which belief system the children will be raised in. If the two of you disagree, than the two of you should have an open, honest discussion until this difficult question is resolved.
There are other, less profound child-raising issues to discuss, too. For instance, do you want to raise a family in the city, in the suburbs, in a small town or rural setting. This involves not only what kind of childhood your children will have, but also whether you'll be in a fulfilling setting for yourself.
Also, you'll want to discuss what kind of home you want to make. Do you want to rent or own?
How will we handle the finances?
The statistics show that most marriages fail because of finances. Whatever problems already exist in a relationship, money troubles make those problems bigger. A couple should figure out how you go about paying bills, saving for college or retirement and planning your daily budget. If the two of you have wildly different views on handling your money, this will be a growing problem as your start to raise a family.
Be honest and forthcoming when discussing money. This is one of the biggest differences between a dating couple and a married couple. If you have always been financially sound, but your partner maxes out his or her credits cards, then common bank accounts are going to be a major problem. This might be a stress you aren't used to, and one you're less likely to put up with as the years go by. So gets agreement on this difficult relationship question before you proceed to the altar.
Difficult Relationship Questions for Yourself
If you think your relationship is in trouble, here are some tough relationship questions you might ask yourself. This is the time to be truthful in sorting through your emotions and your mental state. If you're having troubles with your partner, you need to evaluate whether the "difficult relationship" is worth continuing.
Is this relationship worth the trouble of maintaining it?
Some romances are like roller coaster rides. Certain people thrive in these situations, with the couple bickering and arguing constantly. That's generally an unhealthy relationship. At the very least, it's high maintenance, and it might be distracting you from enjoying life the way you should.
Don't spend all your time maintaining your romance. If you seem to spend all your time fretting over the latest twist, that's time the two of you could be enjoying each other's company. If all the two of you do is fight, then you need to get out of the relationship.
If the relationship is a marriage, you have to ask yourself if the two of you are simply going through a rough stretch. All marriages have one every once in a while. It's hard living with other people. In a marriage, you should be less willing to ditch the relationship. Eventually, though, if things don't improve, you'll need to ask yourself if the marriage relationship isn't holding the two of you back.
Is this a person I would be attracted to if we met for the first time today?
A lot of people stay in a relationship out of habit. Emotional attachment or sentimentality blur the person's judgment. Familiarity and comfort becomes more important than compatibility. Sentimentality, familiarity and comfort are important in a long term relationship, of course, but those factors do not always go hand in hand with compatibility and attraction.
Have your needs changed since you got in this relationship?
Has your partner changed?
Are you no longer attracted to your boyfriend or girlfriend?
These things happen. If there's no longer a mutual attraction, then it's hard to build a healthy relationship around a shared past. Otherwise, try as you might, you're likely to drift out of the relationship.
Is this someone I want to spend the rest of my life with?
People in a non-serious dating relationship don't need to ask this question. But if you're in a serious relationship, this is a basic question. If you answer "no", you need to get out of the relationship. If you have doubts, then you need to "search your heart" and decide why you have those doubts
Does my boyfriend/girlfriend make me feel good about myself?
Evaluate whether your partner is supportive. You don't want to be with a person who is constantly undermining your self-esteem. You don't want to stay in a relationship that is constantly negative, or that makes you feel bad about yourself.
Some people, unfortunately, try to control their partner by destroying their self-confidence. Negative comments and snide remarks become a way of life. Perhaps the person baits you into arguments, or does what he/she can to make you feel uncomfortable, ashamed or inadequate.
If that's the case, this is not a person you want to spend time with. This person is likely covering deep-seated insecurities by probing your insecurities. This person is trying to control you and does not have your best interests in mind. Get out of this difficult relationship.
Do we bring out the bad in one another?
Certain personalities are ill-suited to one another. Two otherwise normal, healthy individuals might have a basic personality clash. These people can't be in the same room with each other without annoying each other.
Maybe something has happened in your relationship that overshadows all the good in the relationship. If it gets to a point where you bring out the worst in each other, it's time to recognize that and get out of the bad relationship.
Do the two of us have common values?
This questions might reflect personal, religious or moral values. If the guy is a Catholic and the girl is an atheist, this could have long term consequences for a relationship. If one partner believes a relationship should be "open" and the other believes in monogamy, this will just as surely cause trouble.
Not every value clash is quite as dramatic. For instance, the two of you might have very different ideas on raising children. Maybe one of you believes in corporal punishment and the other is dead set against it. If so, maybe the two of you shouldn't be raising the same children.
Even more subtly, maybe one of you believes in having a close family and wants their parents and brothers and sisters stopping in every hour of the day. Then imagine the other wasn't in a very close-knit family and sees the in-laws as a constant source of annoyance. Very different family values could place a large strain on the relationship.
Is my partner dependable?
In the end, you need to be able to depend on your partner. If this is the person you plan on spending the rest of your life with, you'll need to be able to trust this person implicitly. You need to be comfortable in this person's company to live a healthy, happy life. If you aren't comfortable in "being yourself" with your boyfriend or girlfriend, it's just not going to work. Difficult Relationship Answers
All of this might seem like gloom and doom, but these are tough relationship questions that have to be asked if you're having trouble. Good relationships are built on good communications and common understanding. But understanding yourself is important when evaluating your relationship.
When you know your own mind, you'll know what you want and need in a difficult relationship. Be honest with yourself and you can be honest with your partner. Ask yourself the difficult relationship questions and answer them honestly. Then you can make decisions based on what you learn about your partner, yourself and your relationship.
Are these love and relationship quizzes reliable? That depends entirely on you.
Are they as good as paying money for professional counseling or advice? No.
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What is anal sex?
Anal sex (also known as anal intercourse) is when a man puts his penis into the anus and rectum of another man or woman.
Some people might have strong objections, especially religious or moral objections to anal sex. Others may feel uncomfortable about the idea of anal sex simply because it's not something they think they will find enjoyable or want to try. For others however, anal intercourse is a very enjoyable way to have sex.
Anyone wanting to try anal sex should make sure that their partner really wants to do it. If one person wants to try it but the other doesn't, it is better to stick to other forms of sex that both partners enjoy.
If a couple do decide to have anal sex, they should think about using a water-based lubricant, like KY Jelly, and a good quality condom. They should also take it slowly. The lining of the rectum is delicate and easily damaged during vigorous thrusting, particularly if the receiving partner is not relaxed.
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Which position is best for having sex?
What does sex feel like?
How do you have an orgasm?
How do you have oral sex?
How do you masturbate?
How long does sex last?
Is sex noisy?
How long does sex last?
It depends what you mean by sex! The time people devote to doing sexual things can last from a few minutes, to several hours, or even a whole day! The actual act of sexual intercourse will often last until a man has an orgasm (ejaculates or comes), although there's nothing wrong with stopping before this point.
A man might find he comes very quickly the first time he has sexual intercourse. Usually sexual intercourse lasts longer as people get more experienced and know what to expect. But with a new partner it can take time for people to get used to each other. Sex will usually be different every time - it depends on how a couple feel and what they want.
Is sex noisy?
Only if you want it to be! Some people do make noises when they having sex. They might moan or groan with pleasure or even cry out. Some people talk to each other. Others don't speak or make any noises. But your body might make noises that you can't help - squelching and squishing. These might be embarrassing or funny, but they are perfectly normal.
How often do people have sex?
Sexual appetite is entirely a matter of personal taste. Some people have sex once or twice a day and others once a month. It probably varies for most people depending on whether they are in a relationship, how busy they are and how they feel. Most people think about sex far more often than they do it.